Turn Midlife into Your Most Powerful Chapter Yet.
A Faith-Fueled Roadmap to Confidence, Clarity, and Legacy-Building Impact
Turn Midlife into Your Most Powerful Chapter Yet.
A Faith-Fueled Roadmap to Confidence, Clarity, and Legacy-Building Impact
Love how I have tools at my fingertips...
Hi I'm Sharnell, I help women over 40 through a mid-life challenge to flip emotional turbulence and “Who am I now?" doubts into fresh purpose—and a step-by-step plan for a life that finally fits.
Midlife is where a lot of stuff crashes together—changing hormones, too many responsibilities, and years of bottled-up regrets. Put all that in one place and it can leave you tired, second-guessing yourself, and stuck in the same old rut.
Bottom line: Traditional coaching inspires you; The Toolbox Coach provides you with inspiration and implementation. With my hybrid method, I blend the heart of coaching with the strategy of consulting so you get mindset and movement, healing and action, support and solutions and you see results sooner and sustain them far beyond the program. It's Toolbox Time!
"You want to be a part of something that makes you feel alive." Those words hit me like Spiritual CPR. Five years ago I was in a dark space and drowning—church hurt, broken relationships, and a purpose that felt forever on the back-burner. My mind was highjacked, “Where did I go wrong?” "I did everything I was asked to do" But when those words was spoken, the fog lifted, my pulse returned, and hope rushed in. The moment I whispered a quiet “Yes” to God, everything shifted. That single word unlocked a whole toolbox of solutions and step-by-step strategies—launching the comeback story I’m living today.
stuck is not my story!
IMAGINE THIS...
You wake up before the alarm, stretch, and feel a burst of energy instead of dread. Instead of grabbing your phone, you pick up your REIGNITE journal, take a few deep breaths, and write a quick one-line prayer to set the tone for the day. Your mind feels clear—like breathing fresh air.
At work, that meeting that used to make you feel like a fraud now feels easy. You speak up clearly because your Comeback Roadmap already told you what to say and how to stay on track. Your coworkers listen, your ideas hit home, and confidence just feels good.
Your grown daughter texts, “Mom, thanks for talking with me last night—I really needed it.” You grin. Instead of jumping in to fix everything, you listened, just like the REIGNITE “Legacy Lens” taught you. Now the give-and-take feels easy, not exhausting, because you finally see how your own unique style makes relationships click.
Instead of crashing on the couch and binge-watching Netflix, you lace up your sneakers and take a lap around the block, repeating short Bible verses that shut down that nagging inner voice. The feel-good chemicals kick in, and you end the walk feeling lighter, calmer, happier, and more focused.
THE REIGNITE METHOD
Feeling stuck after 40 doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. It’s just what happens when hormones change, life piles on, and old “not good enough” thoughts creep in. If that hits home, take a breath—you’re the reason I created the REIGNITE Method™. Together we’ll spot every way you trip yourself up, shut down that inner critic with Bible truth, and use small, practical habits to keep mood swings in check—tips that work in real life, not just on paper.
Inside our toolbox you’ll find more than pep talks. Each step pairs heart-level coaching with hands-on consulting. Translation? You wake up energized, speak up with authority, and watch your private breakthrough spill into public favor at work, home, and church.
As you blaze forward with fearless confidence, you’ll light a path for the women coming behind you. That’s legacy in motion—and it starts the moment you click "It's Toolbox Time."
Schedule your free 30 minute clarity call today!
Meet Sharnell
PASSION MEETS PURPOSE
I’m a Certified Life and Mental Health Coach, faith-led encourager, and your go-to "Toolbox Coach" for when you’re ready to break free from cycles, shift your mindset, and finally move forward with clarity and confidence. You've come a long way and it's time to feel alive again!
I'm in full-time ministry, and every week I walk with women like you—step by step. Together, we uncover what’s keeping them stuck, break through emotional and spiritual blocks, and create a clear path forward. Seeing them smile again and reignite their purpose makes my heart flutter with joy. I help them stay committed, so they don’t just start—they finish strong.
I am the founder of Far Above Rubies Etiquette Program, a nonprofit mentoring youth in confidence, character, and life skills to help them lead with purpose. www.far-above-rubies.com.
My STRONG podcast is a ministry platform power-packed with moments designed to Encourage YOU to GET UP, GET MOVING AND GET UNSTUCK!
Here's some fun facts about me:
- I love "Dancing"
- My Superpower is Prayer
- Former Miami Dolphins NFL Cheerleader.
WORK WITH ME
THREE MONTH INTENSIVE
3 months of personalized 1:1 coach-sulting
12 sessions (1 hour each)
1x/week for 3 months
Email Support
You’re ready for real change—without the wait?
Let’s make it happen.
You’re ready to reclaim what life, lies, and loss tried to steal.
You're ready to rise, move, and finally get unstuck.
MY APPROACH
Most programs make you choose: pure coaching (lots of questions, few answers) or straight consulting (tons of advice, little heart-work). My hybrid approach fuses the best of both. We dig deep with faith-centered coaching to surface the why, then bolt on consulting-grade tools—checklists, templates, habit trackers—to power the how. Inspiration meets implementation, so clarity turns into measurable action the very same week.
SIX MONTHS - REIGNITE X
6 months of personalized 1:1 coach-sulting
24 coaching sessions (1 hour each)
2xs/month for 6 months
Email Support
You’re ready for a coach who doesn’t just check in—but locks in for the journey with you.
You’re done with the loops, the lies, and the lingering. It’s time to jump off the crazy cycle—for good.
